I'm not really great with follow through, I'll admit it. As such, I didn't really continue with the "30 Days of Truth". Over time I will randomly do a post from the list but as you may have noticed I won't post daily.
In other news, I joined an online dating website for the 4th or 5th time? Not sure which. I usually quit after a day or two of seeing the winners that are on these sites. But in a case of desperation last night I joined two sites. One free, the other not free. On one of these sites I actually saw a profile of an interesting guy (yeah I was shocked too). We had a lot of similar interests and he was pretty attractive. So I did what any red-blooded, semi-horny gal would do and sent him the equivalent of a poke. He poked me back today but didn't send me a message or anything like that. Now I'm pretty interested in finding out more about this guy. But I'm a bit hesitant to initiate contact beyond the poke. I am a bit old-fashioned in that sense and believe if he was interested he would have messaged me. So hear comes the question.
Should I message this guy?
P.S. We got matched on another dating website! Coincidence? Probably but it makes things more interesting.
3 comments:
i totally think you should message this guy. afterall he poked you back, so you know that he's not totally uninterested. and well you seem interested enough in him so i think you should give yourself a chance to find out more.
I know what you mean, about being old-fashioned. BUT, somtimes, if you ya want something done, ya gotta do it yourself. So you should initiate the conversation first. But after that, what i look for is if the guy has the initiative to start up the next conversation and not wait for you.
Thanks guys! I braved it and sent him an email. So we'll see how it goes.
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